(This book is excellent. If your parent has the
BPD or any other mental health disorder, I strongly encourage you
to get this book. This is a self help book that will help to free
you).
"When
you were a child...
Did
your parents tell you were bad or worthless?
Did
your parents use physical pain to discipline you?
Did
you have to take care of your parents because of their problems?
Were
you frightened of your parents?
Did
your parents do anything to you that had to be kept secret?
Now
that you are an adult...
Do
your parents still treat you as if you were a child?
Do
you have intense emotional or physical reactions after spending
time with your parents?
Do
your parents control you with threats or guilt?
Do
they manipulate you with money?
Do
you feel that no matter what you do, it's never good enough for
your parents?
In
this remarkable self-help guide, Dr. Susan Forward drawn on case
histories and the real-life voices of adult children of toxic parents
to help you free yourself from the frustrating patterns of your
relationship with your parents -- and discover an exciting new world
of self-confidence, inner strength, and emotional independence."